Make Your Life Ridiculously Amazing...

Title is very much contradictory, but yes, I have a proof. Usually,  Drunken means being alcoholic, nevertheless intoxication of alcohol is for some hours still we enjoy having it. We have made it as a symbol of toast or celebration too. Actual happiness as per the current scenario is like, very few close people and a glass of wine. Many are against alcohol but in substitute they will have tea or coffee and will have caffeine which is an alkaloid compound and stimulates nervous system . But this stimulation, intoxication and happiness are temporary. Just imagine if these all becomes permanent how will we feel? The permanent source of intoxication with bliss can be achieved if we can be drunkard of the happiness and the magic that lies in the beautifulness of finding the only good things in everything. Just have the power of smiles and that too created by YOU .Feel that smile is more superior to anything else. Do one task selflessly each day and just observe the result fro...

As per the dictionary Formality means strictly conventional behaviour. Yes, it has the capacity to spread negative vibes at the fastest speed because formality in my point of view means showing of the fake emotions in front of the person which is of zero value. Even sometimes that includes back biting too. Means as and when formality enters people become two faced.  Misunderstanding, miscommunication, loss of love, jealousy and anger, because of these evils the baby named “Formality” is born. This baby grows stronger day by day and the result is the real attachment dies. Hence, let our formal behaviour die and let it give birth to the unconditional love. Even the formal education will make you a living but self education will make you a fortune. Yes, above were the restrictions of Formality but what if this Formality is vanished from the universe??? Only genuine relations will prevail and love will be endless. Happiness will be at the infinity and the smiles everyw...

In today’s scenario do we lack knowledge? Do we lack fitness? Do we lack positivity? Do we lack education? These are basics. A big thing we lack is the sweetest and the purest thing and that is nothing but “SMILE” though it is free of cost. But it is the only mania which can be use to cure disease like anger, fight, jealousy etc. It has its various ways it could be used to solve problems but if used in a sarcastic way it can create fight too. Use it wisely. Here the problem starts when people needs reason to smile. I love the lines,” If we can get best photograph at our one smile, why cannot we get best life ahead if we smile every time.” People!!! Life is very short if not smiling or being happy today , rather I can say NOW when you will smile? See Having Problems is the Universal Problem so it’s totally normal, come out of that zone and see this beautiful world. Even this song has beautiful message sung by Mukeshji which goes ; “Kisiki muskuraahaton pe ho nisaar Kisika...

Life is all about FREEDOM . Think how we felt when India got freedom. It was like celebration and happiness everywhere. All were dancing like a peacock that dances in rain. Similarly, a beautiful relation built with the one should be FREE from the ills like jealousy, ego, attitude and restrictions. It should be bounded with the colourful threads of FREEDOM, LOYALTY, TRUST and UNDERSTANDING. If it’s true there should be no sign of hiding the things, no fear of losing the person and no past should have effect on the present moment.    Why are we always becoming judgemental based on any one shocking incident happened in the relation and why are we letting that relation gets over? This will slowly get the plant of angelic relation to the dead state. We are being planted with the seeds of more negatives than positives. Why cannot we have that purity and transparency? See the radiant strength of this pretty relation which made you close to that person. Just think of...

Dear Elders, A warm PRANAM (greetings) to all of you. This letter is in reference with few possibilities we can handle with your permission. You are elders and yes we need your blessings plus experience. But we are facing few dilemmas that are firstly you have nurtured us and given us “Sanskar” (Morals & Norms), trust us once whole heartedly we won’t let you down. Secondly, you want to teach us, please go ahead but treat us like your friend as telling “yes, you are friend” and actually treating as a friend is different. Make us know the difference between “Right and Wrong”. Let us decide something best. We are your blood; eventually we will too make decision which is proper for us. Don’t let us feel down in front of others because we are seeds. We are growing and prospering. Your support is what we need. Your sudden scolding in front of others, letting us down, lots of conservative thinking, not letting us to take risks (You took in your age), fear of failure (support us...

One rainy night my mobile blinked and it was a text from one of my student. She asked an unusual question that, " What is the definition of an Ideal Daughter ?" I was in a dilemma how to explain her, as whatever I would answer she will believe and I have to teach her the right thing only. So our conversation was like: Me: Parent 1        Those who are following old and rigid tradition. So "Ideal Daughter" for them is cooking good food, stay at home, do household work, study till graduation, marry with the boy of high status, have kids, have grand kids and die.       Parent 2       They follow half new and half old tradition. For them "Ideal Daughter" is do house hold work, study and make name, do higher study but no job or business. Marry with settled boy , have kids, attend kitty parties, have grand kids and die with nice clothes.      Parent 3      They are fully forward. They will accept all...

Yes, I believe this plays a crucial role as the main actor plays his role in a movie/play. Complaints can be reduced nearer to zero if priorities are set in order. Priorities in work and Priorities in relations both are important. If the person is emotionally fit he or she can do wonders. Here we are going to see Priorities in terms of our personal life as many people come around and have many problems and the root cause is giving a Priority. It starts with a single “hello” and yes one of the best relations is made. At the initial he/she is the only Priority but as the days passes we meet new people so the best relation created once goes to the last Priority and here the reason of stress, worry , tensions begin. How and Why? Sometimes it’s difficult to understand people’s logic. The beautiful created relation gets wiped out due to peeping of the new person. That one person might have given you the best of his/her love and care, as well as have set you at the top of the Prior...

Yes! A Magician, but of what? Create a magic in life with Positivity. One will be able to achieve whatever he wants, if has learnt to be positive. In current scenario if you see, all negative attracts a lot because of that many relations are spoiled , creates weird environment , effects physically and in some case loosing of mental balance becomes difficult. So why to be negative if we are being inbuilt by God to see positives. Every person however he or she is it has one good quality in them. We should have that eye to see good in every one. When positive vibes transfers from one person to another it has magical effect. It gives smile and makes everything joyful. One should have the pure heart to enjoy the feeling of positivity. Feel the magic and see the positives. God is the one who fights all our battle, he just test us that we can keep our heads cool. Let only the positive vibes enter in you and let all of us create magic. x