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A Letter to the Elders


Dear Elders,

A warm PRANAM (greetings) to all of you. This letter is in reference with few possibilities we can handle with your permission. You are elders and yes we need your blessings plus experience. But we are facing few dilemmas that are firstly you have nurtured us and given us “Sanskar” (Morals & Norms), trust us once whole heartedly we won’t let you down.

Secondly, you want to teach us, please go ahead but treat us like your friend as telling “yes, you are friend” and actually treating as a friend is different. Make us know the difference between “Right and Wrong”. Let us decide something best. We are your blood; eventually we will too make decision which is proper for us. Don’t let us feel down in front of others because we are seeds. We are growing and prospering. Your support is what we need. Your sudden scolding in front of others, letting us down, lots of conservative thinking, not letting us to take risks (You took in your age), fear of failure (support us, you too failed), taunting us in small small things (it hurts), talking about our negatives with others (my son/daughter is not obeying me) etc. This makes us weak and we are unable to prove us. Don’t make us paralyzed. If positive in your mind, all the positive vibes will transform us into super being. At times we are scared to tell you the truth.

This is not only for parents but it’s for near and dear relatives too. Every so often we think why you interfere everywhere. Please shore us up with the blessings to give our best. The greatest demotivation we face is “no support zone” sometimes. World is being changing day by day so taste, professions, cultures, thoughts, career, technology etc all changes too. So please be with us and don’t force your decisions. Listen us too and let we decide mutually. We do have many big plans in our mind. Help us to execute for extraordinary results.

We respect you with whole heart and what you advise us will surely make us successful. We know you say because we suffer less and become easily out of the difficulties. But dear elders please give us a chance to fly. We are crawling and we need you to touch the sky.

With Love,
Younger Generation

Comments

  1. Charmy Raja25 August 2018 at 10:01

    Good msg with good words mam..

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  2. Jesal R Jadeja26 August 2018 at 00:23

    Wahh 💯👍❤

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  3. Bhavika Badarshahee14 October 2018 at 00:49

    Perfect Msg... Your words are great
    Have a super success dear��

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    1. Rushika J Hathi14 October 2018 at 11:15

      Thank you Bhavika that sitting far you are reading my blogs dear..Keep supporting...Thank you :)))

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  4. JAY HATHI25 February 2019 at 05:49

    GREAT!!!
    This article marks the skills that you possess in writing and said about your maturity.
    Superbly written.
    A must read article for all the children and parents as it said about the two way communication between them.
    a feeling that you pour in this article is commendable.

    Keep motivating us.

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  5. Rushika J Hathi11 March 2019 at 08:59

    Sure will do...Keep showering blessings on me:)

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  6. Jadeja Ravirajsinh31 March 2019 at 10:03

    Impressive words!

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    1. Rushika J Hathi31 March 2019 at 19:45

      Thank You for this...it inspires me to write more to write :)

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