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Dear Elders, A warm PRANAM (greetings) to all of you. This letter is in reference with few possibilities we can handle with your permission. You are elders and yes we need your blessings plus experience. But we are facing few dilemmas that are firstly you have nurtured us and given us “Sanskar” (Morals & Norms), trust us once whole heartedly we won’t let you down. Secondly, you want to teach us, please go ahead but treat us like your friend as telling “yes, you are friend” and actually treating as a friend is different. Make us know the difference between “Right and Wrong”. Let us decide something best. We are your blood; eventually we will too make decision which is proper for us. Don’t let us feel down in front of others because we are seeds. We are growing and prospering. Your support is what we need. Your sudden scolding in front of others, letting us down, lots of conservative thinking, not letting us to take risks (You took in your age), fear of failure (support us...

One rainy night my mobile blinked and it was a text from one of my student. She asked an unusual question that, " What is the definition of an Ideal Daughter ?" I was in a dilemma how to explain her, as whatever I would answer she will believe and I have to teach her the right thing only. So our conversation was like: Me: Parent 1        Those who are following old and rigid tradition. So "Ideal Daughter" for them is cooking good food, stay at home, do household work, study till graduation, marry with the boy of high status, have kids, have grand kids and die.       Parent 2       They follow half new and half old tradition. For them "Ideal Daughter" is do house hold work, study and make name, do higher study but no job or business. Marry with settled boy , have kids, attend kitty parties, have grand kids and die with nice clothes.      Parent 3      They are fully forward. They will accept all...

Yes, I believe this plays a crucial role as the main actor plays his role in a movie/play. Complaints can be reduced nearer to zero if priorities are set in order. Priorities in work and Priorities in relations both are important. If the person is emotionally fit he or she can do wonders. Here we are going to see Priorities in terms of our personal life as many people come around and have many problems and the root cause is giving a Priority. It starts with a single “hello” and yes one of the best relations is made. At the initial he/she is the only Priority but as the days passes we meet new people so the best relation created once goes to the last Priority and here the reason of stress, worry , tensions begin. How and Why? Sometimes it’s difficult to understand people’s logic. The beautiful created relation gets wiped out due to peeping of the new person. That one person might have given you the best of his/her love and care, as well as have set you at the top of the Prior...