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Formality - The Vague


As per the dictionary Formality means strictly conventional behaviour. Yes, it has the capacity to spread negative vibes at the fastest speed because formality in my point of view means showing of the fake emotions in front of the person which is of zero value. Even sometimes that includes back biting too. Means as and when formality enters people become two faced. 
Misunderstanding, miscommunication, loss of love, jealousy and anger, because of these evils the baby named “Formality” is born. This baby grows stronger day by day and the result is the real attachment dies. Hence, let our formal behaviour die and let it give birth to the unconditional love. Even the formal education will make you a living but self education will make you a fortune.

Yes, above were the restrictions of Formality but what if this Formality is vanished from the universe???
Only genuine relations will prevail and love will be endless. Happiness will be at the infinity and the smiles everywhere that too the bona fide ones. We are so formal nowadays that we fail to remember the charm of real smiles and the attraction of real bliss. Relationship is the glow that shines like the sun if there is no devil of FORMALITY. The sweetness of life lies in the giving out with formalities. Why so that we depend on the other person for a talk or a call us to sustain the relation, we by our self can do the same if we actually miss the person. This disease called FORMALITY is hurting many who are true to heart, so let us take the pledge to follow Anti Formality Path and fall in love with each other’s originality.


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  1. Chandani J.Thanki11 November 2018 at 11:40

    So True,, Rushika.. Diiii formalities are just a fake concerned which let you down emotionally..

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    1. Rushika J Hathi11 November 2018 at 20:25

      Exactly...Leave it a side and go for happiness..

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  2. Charmy Raja11 November 2018 at 11:51

    True ben..100%

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  3. Unknown11 November 2018 at 12:20

    ✌️👍

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  4. Jesal R Jadeja11 November 2018 at 14:14

    �������������� Wahh Boss 100% correct

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  5. Rushika J Hathi11 November 2018 at 20:28

    yeahh boss...:)

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  6. Unknown11 November 2018 at 20:51

    Amazing words and really exxellent that you write on such deep topics and explain it so simply...hats off...

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  7. Rushika J Hathi12 November 2018 at 00:44

    thank you:)

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  8. Unknown12 November 2018 at 00:58

    Very true Rushika mam...

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  9. JAY HATHI25 February 2019 at 05:19

    FORMALITY - Something done as a matter of course, as you dislike doing it but have to do it anyhow.

    Nicely written article and its so easy to understand.

    I TAKE THE PLEDGE TO FOLLOW ANTI-FORMALITY PATH.
    VERY TRUE IN EVERY SENSE

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  10. Rushika J Hathi11 March 2019 at 19:13

    Thank you so much. I am glad that you like to read my write ups...:)

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  11. Unknown25 September 2019 at 17:08

    Very nice rushi formLity spoils all the. Real relations

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