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Forgiveness – Most Beautiful Form of Love


This is something extra hard to do. It is said that loving and supporting is easy but to forgive is tough. If I define Forgiveness - it is the release of bitterness or anger. It is important for mental health of those who have been victimised.  When we forgive people it elevates mood, enhance positivity, increase love protects against anxiety and depression. It is about setting yourself free so that you can move forward in your own life. Joan Borysenko said in an interview, "You can forgive someone who wronged you and still call the police and testify in court." Forgiveness requires a deep inquiry within us about "our story with them."
As per the experience and the research of mine, I feel sometimes the doer of the mistake is in more pain and guilt. They have lost all the rights because involuntarily they did big blunder of their life, whose outcome they might even have not thought of. They are in a situation that they cannot even prove their worth, they cannot get angry, they even cannot express ache or they cannot show sad emotion too. They are burning themselves from inside and are in tears. They even cannot act originally; they are just being burned or punished from inside.  If mistake is done with intention to harm someone than leave, you will never be spared. But yes if it’s seriously a mistake to cure someone than no issues, one day your purity will spread.
We feel that our strength lies in being having power to let others down or having more money. But it is said that Forgiveness is attribute of the strong. Other end says “Always forgive your enemy – nothing annoys them more”.  It is a sign of your character. It shows the real person inside you. There are two kind of forgiveness. First when you forgive and you give them another chance, the other is you forgive but you move on without them. Use them both wisely.
Talking about relation and love, would adore quoting, there is no love without forgiveness, and there is no forgiveness without love. Even Robert Quillen said, “A happy marriage is the union of two good forgivers.” If a person keeps coming back and you love each other enough to keep forgetting past mistakes, maybe you were really meant for each other. The only one person to make you feel better is the same person who broke your heart as that person is still close to your heart. The reality is people do mess up but don’t let one mistake ruin a beautiful thing. Out of 100% relations broke up due to unintentional mistake only 2% gets patched up easily without the feeling of guilt and mocking. The bond becomes stronger if we try to understand the feel of each other. May Lord blesses us with such true bonding.
Spread love, peace and kindness because in the world of fake they are the only weapon to tie true people by getting addicted to the Art of Forgiving.

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