Hello
Folks! This blog is particularly dedicated to those whose feelings are changing
as per the time. Relations are being affected badly and somebody is dying from
inside. When two people come into a relation it is their mutual feeling. But as
time passes we feel that there is a change in one partner’s feelings. See friends
I am coming to various people who are prey of this thing. If we have committed
to be together why that feeling cannot be consistent? Why one has to suffer.
That is fine understanding should be from both the side but when u after a huge
fight promised to be that newly made couple why suddenly the priority changes? Why
all the things are not as they were before? Why you need somebody or something
else to heal and not your partner who is desperate and craving for you? Sushant
Singh Rajput did Suicide may be because he might have to accept the change which
took place in his loved ones. He has to understand all the things but his
feelings might have been misunderstood in the form of overreaction. Friends the
crying, the anger, the possessiveness not being indulging as one soul might
affect the other person so badly that he decides to end his life. Not always
its one side but please by God’s sake let your feelings be that consistent that
your partner feels secure. A little change can be felt in the behaviour that is
why reaction is taking place but that reaction is out of love. You will say
that one partner always expect to meet and talk. But satisfy him, remembrr
those days you use to take all the pain and risks to see each other. When one
needs the most be there. One can argue
that partner from other side must also understand too. But that person is the
same old one, 24 hours ready to talk. Difference can be felt. Before that
social media you use you use to make them feel that you are important by sending
love image, you use to answer all the small questions, you use to take out
atleast 5 minutes for good morning and good night talk. You use to run to see
each other’s face. You use to answer yes I will keep you posted do not worry.
But now you say you have to wait and you are online on social media. That
person also might lose patience sometimes. He or she might be in some problem.
See you get this special one only one time. Why can’t you control your feeling.
You always blame your partner that “You are not understanding”, “Better to hide
from you”, “Better to not to talk to you”, “I am better alone”, “I need space”
but other side that sensitive is thinking to quit life. He/she is your partner
do not let them wait. And more important true love has 6th sense,
they can feel the tiny change too, whatever you hide or lie can be felt. Just
think twice before doing anything. Your small behaviour change can be costly. You
have to change according to the era, generation and time but these feelings if
consistent can give the best moments in life. Save people from harm. Respect
emotions and somebody’s madness towards you. Don’t let them leave this world.
Real love is very rare. Please a prayer and I am begging people let love and
feelings be refreshed not for the sake of fulfilling promise it should be from
heart. They are sensitive. If it will break person from inside they will end
their life.All the best! Take care! Let not space and distance separate you.
Please understand! Don’t blame just think what they are going through without “Original
You and Your Love”. Its on you to choose!
My mind was literally desperate to write on this topic seeing today’s era forgetting the true essence of LOVE . On one or the other day you see that celebrities are separated after so many years of love, other way you see the extra marital affairs, next you also see feeling suddenly transfer to other person. Why the LOVE has become so weak? Why that strength is not there to heal and trust each other? Why we move to another partner? Why getting divorced after kids? These kinda LOVE is hurting me and breaking me from inside. So, I am pointing here some psychological facts which might help us to heal our relations. First of all our life is too small to break and get again the new one. If you are having that “ONE” which you feel soulful connection than never leave them because some day we are surely gonna miss that “ONE” when we are apart. Value “Human” and not the “Materiality of them”. Nobody is perfect and nobody’s relation is perfect we just have to put those i...
Wow.. very well expressed.
ReplyDeleteJust Beautiful and heartfelt note.. it is a voice of soo many unknown soul.. Wonderfully express... Loved it...
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