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Live, Laugh and Confess

The Corona situation compelled me to write this blog. From many days I have been observing that my counselling cases are increasing. It is not sure who will have what problem? What are people facing in their lives? This pandemic have made me realised that you never know when your life flight will departure, so thought to convey my thoughts. You are deep inside scared, broken or is in fear what will happen next.

These black days have proved that nobody’s ego, status or power will work in front of this deadly disease. So people it’s a request from my side by joining two hands, whatever you are going through just live your days fully, laugh without any fear and confess what you feel. Because today can be your last day on this earth. This beautiful earth is taking dangerous form. Tell your friends how much you miss them, care and confess to your loved ones, tell your family that they mean to you and tell all your favourites that yes you are there when you need them. This is very peculiar time so let us give shoulders to each other. We cannot go and meet everyone but yes ask for help, confess your feelings and tell them how you feel about them just because may be chances are that you won’t be able to see your mains again as they are captivated by Corona. They can be in hospital or death bed and you regret later of not saying what you felt. Somewhere your crucial part of life will be also waiting for your confession. But he or she might leave this place for permanent.

Share your sadness openly; it will help you to have little peace and a feeling of having someone own. Share your happiness, it will be doubled. Share your memories and remember the past ones which will make you laugh. Leave the anger and misunderstanding aside, just call your friend or relative and say sorry. You may be having mountain of problems but you will have ONE who is constantly praying to protect you, ONE to understand you, to push you, to kick you for growing, to care for you and to love you.

You are totally wrecked from the mind and heart; you don’t have power to live also but yes till almighty has written, you have to do your duties fruitfully. So the therapy to get out of all the problem is just talk to someone you trust. This world works on the basis of faith and belief. Faith on God and Belief in yourself. Trust others and tell them. They might not give solutions but they might make you feel crazy by their way of making you laugh and changing your moods (vibes). Why RJ’s talk to people? Why counselors talk to people? Why we need friend to talk? Why even we need God (We have not seen) to share our feelings? Because we want to be free from that burden of bad thoughts. So my readers a small request to all of you just support and care for each other and be a good listener. You never know which is last day? Either of yours or of your near ones? It really gives me tears sometimes.


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