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मेरे लिए तुम काफी हो = U , Me Aur Hum

I am about to reveal here the biggest secrets of the two genders which are attraction of each other. Yes, I am quoting about “Male and Female” tantrums.

Task Completion

Male- He is better at completing single task. So never tell him 3 4 tasks together or else he might forget.

Female- She is better at multi tasking. She can manage household plus office with accuracy for sure.

Reaction to Stress

Male- He will be silent and he wants to be alone at that time because he thinks that he is capable of solving it alone. Never annoy him. Just keep calm and love.

Female- She wants male’s attention so she may argue or cry or expect that somebody should ask and heal her. So guys when girl is silent ask her and protect her.

Memory Master

Male- He forgets the dates and feels everyday is same or every day is to celebrate. So if his woman fights with him on not remembering the dates he may become “Angry Young Man”. But if she politely makes him remember than he will shower all the love.

Female- Here she is like calendar and remembers all the dates from the day she met. If her partner forgets she might blow up like volcano and she will sulk. Then it will take days to make her mood normal. She will argue like hell. Her memory can lessen by menopause. So take care about her.

Friend Zone

Male- He loves chilling with friends and they are always a priority. Here female would be jealous but female will never realise with friends too he will miss you from inside. But if you will argue about his friends he will surely fight.

Female- She is crazy with her friends. But she prioritise her partner first and in return will expect appreciation. And a bit pampering and a small hug.

Expressing the Self

Male- He will never express what he feels so give him his “ME” time as a result he can adjust and prepare himself. Once he will start sharing he won’t stop. So female stop irritating by asking again and again.

Female- She expresses her entirely if she trusts you. She has this type of tantrum that she wants to tell her partner each small thing and want him (partner) to listen. No, not only listen but react in her favour.

Wants

Male – He wants freedom and his ego should never be hurt. He has to be treated like a small kid. If he is angry he will speak many things that might hurt you. But after he cools down he will feel the most guilt in his head. So just respect and trust him.

Female- She wants to get pampered and wants care 24 hours. She wants to feel that she matters the most. A small gesture of love can make her feel better. She needs importance.

These were the secrets which will help you to build your relation and can keep that spark alive in Forever. These tiny things if understood deeply, can make our life balanced.

Because I believe that unconditional LOVE and UNDERSTANDING each other are the only keys to peaceful relation. You cannot live alone; you need someone who is ready to be with you no matter what, so let’s feel this magic in US. Support each others dream, respect feelings, honor small gestures of care and live together.


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