One rainy night my mobile blinked and it was a text from one of my student. She asked an unusual question that, "What is the definition of an Ideal Daughter?"
I was in a dilemma how to explain her, as whatever I would answer she will believe and I have to teach her the right thing only.
So our conversation was like:
Me: Parent 1
Those who are following old and rigid tradition. So "Ideal Daughter" for them is cooking good food, stay at home, do household work, study till graduation, marry with the boy of high status, have kids, have grand kids and die.
Parent 2
They follow half new and half old tradition. For them "Ideal Daughter" is do house hold work, study and make name, do higher study but no job or business. Marry with settled boy , have kids, attend kitty parties, have grand kids and die with nice clothes.
Parent 3
They are fully forward. They will accept all your decisions, let you do whatever you want to and no cross checks of your deeds. No love and care. You and them both busy in your own terms. No interference. You choose your partner and get marry. There is nothing like "Ideal Daughter".
Parent 4
Getting "Updated" with the new generations and accepting the change. "Ideal Daughter" for them is they teach cooking and household work so nobody can point her. Do higher study and fly with your dreams. If failure is there they are to guide you. Gives "Sanskar" to make your in laws proud. Will let you marry with the boy who can feel your dream. And at the end will tell go and marry the boy you love, we have taught you what is right and what is wrong. We just want to enjoy our childhood again with your kids.
Than my student said ,"Yeah! I got my answer. Thank you so much."
I was in a dilemma how to explain her, as whatever I would answer she will believe and I have to teach her the right thing only.
So our conversation was like:
Me: Parent 1
Those who are following old and rigid tradition. So "Ideal Daughter" for them is cooking good food, stay at home, do household work, study till graduation, marry with the boy of high status, have kids, have grand kids and die.
Parent 2
They follow half new and half old tradition. For them "Ideal Daughter" is do house hold work, study and make name, do higher study but no job or business. Marry with settled boy , have kids, attend kitty parties, have grand kids and die with nice clothes.
Parent 3
They are fully forward. They will accept all your decisions, let you do whatever you want to and no cross checks of your deeds. No love and care. You and them both busy in your own terms. No interference. You choose your partner and get marry. There is nothing like "Ideal Daughter".
Parent 4
Getting "Updated" with the new generations and accepting the change. "Ideal Daughter" for them is they teach cooking and household work so nobody can point her. Do higher study and fly with your dreams. If failure is there they are to guide you. Gives "Sanskar" to make your in laws proud. Will let you marry with the boy who can feel your dream. And at the end will tell go and marry the boy you love, we have taught you what is right and what is wrong. We just want to enjoy our childhood again with your kids.
Than my student said ,"Yeah! I got my answer. Thank you so much."
I got ideal mom 😘😘😘
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DeleteAhhh... Just beautiful mam. My ideal Mam.
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As it is written By My Idol Ma'am ❤
Thank you Dear Jesal..😍
DeleteWow ! What a delicious words with a true message ...very nice mam.
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