Make Your Life Ridiculously Amazing...

Dear Me, A warm and loving hug to you...I am excited to give you flash future of the things which you decided to do and you told me to remind when you forgot the same. So here is the quick dosage for you to be more creative, innovative and unique. As you are now on the path of making peoples’ "life ridiculously amazing”. So now many have experienced smile after you met them and guided them on right direction. It signifies that more are waiting to smile. You are an Author, Motivational Speaker, Corporate Trainer and Life Coach, so pinch of things you must keep in mind. Remember you do not have to just earn money for your work but you have to serve the society first because God has sent us on the earth for some purpose and your purpose is to make others out of the mental disability. Because we have doctors for physical disability but not for mental one, who works with heart. Kindly be heart oriented and not money oriented. You have to guide kids to have best values, teena...

This is something extra hard to do. It is said that loving and supporting is easy but to forgive is tough. If I define Forgiveness - it is the release of bitterness or anger. It is important for mental health of those who have been victimised.   When we forgive people it elevates mood, enhance positivity, increase love protects against anxiety and depression. It is about setting yourself free so that you can move forward in your own life. Joan Borysenko said in an interview, "You can forgive someone who wronged you and still call the police and testify in court." Forgiveness requires a deep inquiry within us about "our story with them." As per the experience and the research of mine, I feel sometimes the doer of the mistake is in more pain and guilt. They have lost all the rights because involuntarily they did big blunder of their life, whose outcome they might even have not thought of. They are in a situation that they cannot even prove their worth, they can...

In the whole aroma of professional Shirt and Tie I look professional in Salwar Suit and Bindi. In the whole fragrance of Caramel Coffee I am in search of the Masala Tea and Biscuit. In the long queue of billing in the malls and marts I am in search of Bargaining streets for 10 rupees. In the smell of American and Chinese cuisines I am in search of Gol Gappas and Bhaji Pau. In the sea of more Classy and Proficient words I am in search of simple and local Slang. In the International Conferences and Tours I am always representing myself as an Indian.

Bore to travel alone with lots of luggage, This was my False Notion I say; Once I entered this Adventure of ecstasy, I was damn amazed I say. I would love to share this joy, When I began the journey. Travelling made me Original,  As I have to be fake sometimes in this cruel world. Travelling made me Diversified, As I understood the different cultures sensibly. Travelling made me Creative, As I learned to pack more stuff in a small bag. Travelling made me more Social; As I started accompanying the strangers. Travelling made my General Knowledge; As I opened the book called “Wonderful World”. Travelling made me tech master; As I gave myself fully to capture memories. Travelling made me at Peace; As I temporarily disconnected from normal routine. Bore to travel alone with lots of luggage, This was my False Notion I say; Once I entered this Adventure of ecstasy, I was damn amazed I say.

Title makes us feel like recent bollywood movie review but this is something based on the existing reality. A person around love doing one thing and that is “Judging Others” . When we are merely sitting free we start analysing people based on our thought process and we Judge. We frame very weird opinions and we confidently sputter out to the world. Even we are not sure whether it is true or false. Because it is based on just how that person has behaved with us. Who has given us right of framing that dreadful judgement? While being judgemental we feel we are doing something great on the basis of our thinking pattern but yes, it reveals our own personality too. It might be good or cheap depends on the judgement we did. From the opinions framed we are the giving birth to injurious virus and that is “GOSSIP”. It spreads like rumour. And the spoken sentence by us leads to the catalyst in being judgemental. Please stop this you never know, some day you might find yourself in the s...

Yes, to the parents or going to be parents, whoever reading this blog, it is specifically dedicated to them because due to my counselling and training experience I have thought of writing to you as a request. Heard from many that our parents do not allow us (Children) to try something new, or explore new things in life. They instead try to impose their decision on us, speak something rude or in such a way that we (Children) cannot handle nor understand why we are being treated like that. They behave according to their convenience, like whenever they believe we are still a child they would take decision and throw on our face and otherwise if we have done anything wrong we become old enough to know our responsibilities, d ue to which our generation gets confused as to what are they, a child or a mature person, and this all comes down to just one thing is that parents ego is not satisfied. They would like to see their children what they have not been able to do or achieve irresp...

You heard it right; Adventure gives us the happiness and the memories to be enchanted. Adventure itself is an unusual and exciting experience. This proves that if we do one new thing, which, while doing makes us nervous and we are bit scared, also we are damn excited.   Then we will be able to unlock our comfort zone. As it is rightly said by someone, “If we are able to cross our boundaries we become limitless.” New Happiness will arise when we feel strange and weird while doing something which seems impossible to us. Here we will become more confident and powerful. We will face the consequences like taunts, torture, advice of not taking risks, pressure etc , when we perform the adventures by giving the prior information to the world.   But if we perform them by not showing it to others, then   our actions will prove our worth. Yes, it may take time but your actions will prove your worth. As we can go with the saying, “Actions prove louder than voice.” S...

"NOT ASKING" is the only reason of the creation for all the doubts that we have in mind. It makes us worry more about certain things. We have the habit of assuming the things as well as believing things which in fact does not exist.   The power of Asking has the capacity of knowing the beautiful truth. Which may be bitter sometimes but yet it leads to awesomeness and avoids confusion. We actually deserve the best but sometimes we lack in the activity called Asking and eventually suffer in the end.   Most people never ask regarding anything and they believe in their preconceived notions. This is what separates them from other human beings.      In sales it is said, "Unlock the sales by asking stupid questions”.In business also people say that asking is the finest way to success. We learn when we ask questions but people have that mentality that we learn when we talk. The power of asking has a great energy of solving the major questions and misu...

Love itself is the miraculous word. Just hearing or imagining the word “Love” we feel the magic of somebody’s care, understanding and unforgettable moments. But yes, this love must be unconditional. Because if it comes with terms and conditions it will just create mountains between the two. So just to build it like “Forever Young”, we should add the flavour of respect, courtesy, surprises, small small happy moments, attention, freedom, true care and Yes foremost thing a strong trust. It should be bonded like Roots holding each other. Because if it’s for a period of time it is not love, it might be an attachment. Whether any situation best or worst if it’s true, it will survive and grow. But as seen in many scenarios it blooms for 2-3 years and then it gets dead. So we are forgetting that love should be celebrated in every season. In Summer it should sweat with Care, In Monsoon it should wet with Trust and in Winter it should be protected with the warmth of Understanding. Peo...