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  Here we have already logged into 2021! 2020 -   A very scary adventure it was. But life is a ride we are excited at the beginning, scared in the mid and super excited at the end to share what we felt during the entire life at our old age. Yes, this memorable year will be in our journey and we would share it to many generations. Let us delete all those moments which made us low, but let us spark ourselves for 2021. It has lot to dig in. Follow your plans but with some more pinch of creativity and new ideas. Because 2020 have change our perspective to see life. Be thankful to those who have protected us and saved us from each problem. Say sorry to those whom we have hurt knowingly or unknowingly. 2020 taught the meaning of true love with our family, long distance relations, partner and ourselves. We got to know our skills and inbuilt talents. We got to know how to survive in limited things. We valued money more than before. Though this year was so scary but yes a wonderful t...

  Situation of strange dilemma is running in our mind due to this PANDEMIC that how, where and what to do in our personal as well as professional life? But yes, WE Ourself can demand happiness and satisfaction from within. Every Diwali or New Year we take “So Called Resolution” which is for 10 days and then we are “Jaise thee Waise Hi”. So, this terrifying yet adventurous year 2020 has gave us chance to rejuvenate inner self and work harder. Let me jot down exactly what we have to do: 1.       Being mentally fit by avoiding negative news in specific as it brain washes what is good inside. Write whatever you are grateful for as it feels that we are lucky. Your hobby has to be transformed into a passion and then to earning for sure. Believe that Corona will wipe out one day, do not be a dead soul in living body. 2.       Now comes the struggle and problems which is a universal for almost everyone. One thing we always complaint i...

I am about to reveal here the biggest secrets of the two genders which are attraction of each other. Yes , I am quoting about “Male and Female” tantrums. Task Completion Male- He is better at completing single task. So never tell him 3 4 tasks together or else he might forget. Female - She is better at multi tasking. She can manage household plus office with accuracy for sure. Reaction to Stress Male - He will be silent and he wants to be alone at that time because he thinks that he is capable of solving it alone. Never annoy him. Just keep calm and love. Female - She wants male’s attention so she may argue or cry or expect that somebody should ask and heal her. So guys when girl is silent ask her and protect her. Memory Master Male - He forgets the dates and feels everyday is same or every day is to celebrate. So if his woman fights with him on not remembering the dates he may become “Angry Young Man”. But if she politely makes him remember than he will shower all th...

  This blog will help you to change the perspective about the line “Why you broke my trust?” While thinking and jotting the content for this blog I was really into tears. Just want to share with all the readers. We always complaint that they lie to us in spite of loving them too much. But if we go deep into roots we have to accept that person can lie or cheat but we have to trust the goodness of the person . Just tell the person who lie that it’s ok you broke the promise and you lied but your love is pure for me . Never use a word that “I don’t trust you anymore” because this will create uncomfortableness in us first. If you trust someone you will be at peace but if you doubt someone you will create more negative aura. Speak hundred times “I choose the person to trust may be they behave in a different way but I still love them and will trust them as rightly coined love and trust are together .” Accept my partner has done something wrong but I still opt to trust as his/her goodnes...

Robotics, Public Speakers, Creative Designers, Story Tellers, Bloggers, Cloud Computing, IOT etc did not exists 10 years back which created this many career options. Choosing is the most difficult thing. So here we have to compulsory look for the important aspects for choosing the innovative career: We need innovative thinkers - This unpredictable world does not assure that you will get success in one field so you have to prepare for the worst and get ready for the job that you have never thought of. The fundamentals have to be mastered - Whether it is any language, any subject, and any part of anything you have to have appropriate general knowledge. Be the fast track learner -            This era is not focusing on one field or single career but you have to be a quick learner and grasp what is in trend. Because if robots can do surgery in 5 minutes which humans doctor does in 2 hours so we have to be active learner always. As ev...

The Corona situation compelled me to write this blog. From many days I have been observing that my counselling cases are increasing. It is not sure who will have what problem? What are people facing in their lives? This pandemic have made me realised that you never know when your life flight will departure, so thought to convey my thoughts. You are deep inside scared, broken or is in fear what will happen next. These black days have proved that nobody’s ego, status or power will work in front of this deadly disease. So people it’s a request from my side by joining two hands, whatever you are going through just live your days fully, laugh without any fear and confess what you feel. Because today can be your last day on this earth. This beautiful earth is taking dangerous form. Tell your friends how much you miss them, care and confess to your loved ones, tell your family that they mean to you and tell all your favourites that yes you are there when you need them. This is very pecu...

Hello Folks! This blog is particularly dedicated to those whose feelings are changing as per the time. Relations are being affected badly and somebody is dying from inside. When two people come into a relation it is their mutual feeling. But as time passes we feel that there is a change in one partner’s feelings. See friends I am coming to various people who are prey of this thing. If we have committed to be together why that feeling cannot be consistent? Why one has to suffer. That is fine understanding should be from both the side but when u after a huge fight promised to be that newly made couple why suddenly the priority changes? Why all the things are not as they were before? Why you need somebody or something else to heal and not your partner who is desperate and craving for you? Sushant Singh Rajput did Suicide may be because he might have to accept the change which took place in his loved ones. He has to understand all the things but his feelings might have been misunderstood i...

We are having complaint always that people are fake and are lying each time. They are such that they always have wrong intentions and they ditch us. Yes, this is true in 90% cases. The people who are very much close and they trust each other completely, than too they have fear of telling whatever they feel. The question is why? I feel the problem lies in missing element of “REAL TRUST ”. Means the fear arises of that person we love the most or we trust the most will leave us after hearing the truth. May be one has done some mistakes unknowingly or just tried to help other with right intention but it failed than he or she might not confess as has terror of being judged and fear of “Non Acceptance”. Now in this case problem lies with not the person who lies or hides but the person who does not understand. Did you know that 60 percent of people can’t go 10 minutes without lying? Yes, we always lack to accept the truth and we grumble that we are being ditched. Psychology sa...

Once heard that “Education is beyond degrees and marks” . If this can be looked in depth it has a huge meaning and we are failing to understand. We feel that education is getting Professional and Master degree, doing JOB or BUSINESS which are considered as duties after the degrees. If you have read first line carefully than there is a word “BEYOND”, than what does that beyond means?   As per my view it means that accompanied by degrees and marks, education must include core ethics and values. On this statement many might agree but do we have any idea or method that how these values, morals and ethics can be deep rooted in students mind? How can we cultivate the truth part? I have few ideas on the same note that if all the Religious Granths can be taught in the school or colleges. Not the entire Granth but at least few instances which builds the core values and morals. As we are in Smart Class era, in schools, colleges or any education institute one can show at least few ep...

This is specially dedicated to the people of Porbandar. This lockdown enjoy at home and after that run for our favourite dish outside...We miss these tastes but we can adjust... Belonging to Porbandar let me connect this self development period that is lockdown period to all the things we enjoy on daily basis. These 21 days have “Chowpati No Kaavo” sitting in the balcony and gossiping with your family, Please have “Paradise ni Panipuri” substituted by “Garam Garam Rotli” of your wife’s hand, go with “Aashapura na Gathiya” as “Gharma banavela Gathiya” accompanied by pure raw material use to make Gathiya, enjoy “Paresh na Ghughra” as “Home made Bhajiya” with green and sweet chutney, feel the taste of “Honest ni Paunbhaji” with “Healthy Gharni Paunbhaji” to improve your health, eat “The Grand Chamunda’s Food” as “Gharno banavelo Chappan Bhog” by beautiful ladies of home, take pleasure of “Neo Politan Pizza” with “Bhakhri Pizza” to have taste and will not spoil digestion system for su...

There are some serious Viruses roaming in this world which I can connect it to the recent one CORONA VIRUS or COVID-19.   We all are aware that when Corona Virus transfers from one body to another it starts damaging the body. Symptoms are shown as cough, cold,sneeze and fever. Similarly the first virus I quote  is   RUMOUR. It easily transfers from one being to other and starts damaging our mindset rather if it passes to stage 3 it can cause death also. As this breaks person mentally whose rumour is passed. Because of this we also have habit of listening to only negative talks and negative news. Just think of the person who said something positive or sprinkle positive news, he is sold at lowest rate and he has zero value. There is psychological truth that, “You can change the thoughts the way you want to”. Means you can take a U turn and convert your thoughts into positive once. Make a habit to find something good in every situation. And if you wish to think ne...

It is said that Child Within should be alive. We are being taught from the childhood when we are entering to adolescence that “You are matured now, don’t behave like a kid”. Does mature means “Leaving innocence” and “Welcome to Cruelty”? Don't be afraid to be a grown up kid at times -- let your security down and just be. We have a saying that kids are incarnation of God so what happens when we become adult and then elder and then old? This world is very beautiful and incredible place. We are sent here to make it more beautiful and amazing. In this world there are many things to experience so do not waste your time as possibilities of adventures and learning’s are waiting for you. You are your own hero and you have capacity to change this world with your purity. Take responsibility of your mistakes and rectify them, forgive other people’s mistake as nobody commits mistakes intentionally. You don’t know what is going on in anyone’s life. So treat everyone the way you treat you...

When we hear “Satyameva Jayate” usually we get the feeling of Patriotism or the Amir Khan’s TV show. But we have never understood the real meaning of this statement. सत्यमेव जयते   satyam-eva jayate ; means - "Truth alone Wins" is a part of a mantra from the ancient Indian scripture Mukunda Upnishad. It is our national motto since 1950. So I am pointing few instances which are contradictory to the statement. Starting with the Children, than it is said that “Bachhe Hote hai Mann ke Sachhe” that means Children are true by mind. But this truth is transforming into false is what I am observing. The reason behind this is changed behavior of the elders, as it is said children learns from observation. Our Youth, which is said to be the future of India, are taking wrong decisions though they have proper understanding. They are guided by many on wrong paths. They have started thinking immoral for someone, harming someone, Speaking bad about whom they got help from, taking th...

Almost all the professions are affecting the society in one or the other way. But the most important or we can categorise as crucial is educating the society. I am here talking about teaching profession. Yes, Teachers are the strongest pillars in building the nation. They clear the base and do finest cultivation of the person in such a way that benefits the society. Path of teaching is really very difficult because whatever teacher speaks or else what teacher does become the teaching to the students. So it is very vital to behave in such a way which influences mindset optimistically. People nowadays have made this “most respectable profession” as a medium of earning only otherwise thinking prevails that if we have nothing to do we can be a teacher. But this should not be done because teachers are those which are building nation. One must be more careful while teaching the students. Our (Teachers) small act can influence others. One dialogue from bollywood movie Super 30 gives ...